The Importance of Belonging

The importance of belonging to adolescent children.


Recently I wrote about the importance of middle schools to create quality exciting extra curricula clubs and activities for the students in their care. I wrote how it can improve children's self esteem, give them a sense of belonging and even prevent bullying.

It is sometimes hard for adolescent children to understand and express themselves. They begin thinking that playing board games with their parents is babyish. Instead, they will be looking for new role models, be seeking affirmation from their peers and also want to learn new ideas and be challenged further. Joining a group such as a school club at this time will benefit them greatly.

Being with like-minded children who are going through this adjustment period will help children with their own adjustment.They should be encouraged to join these clubs, sporting teams or groups as it will help them enormously with their sense of belonging. Schools should be actively involved in creating these extra curricula activities for the students in their care.